People who love each other have an uncanny knack of making each other miserable…
Moshi likes to lick almost anything…He licks my feet when I walk around… he licks my fingers when I carry him…I just don’t know what is with licking that makes him happy…Or is it just he’s way of saying he likes me, well IDK… The problem with moshi is that he’s too friendly… and he’s always happy even though he had no other dog to play with… It just struck me… Why can’t humans be happy by themselves… Seriously I don’t believe in other people who are alone, and say that they are happy…because I’m pretty sure they aren’t… They may say they are happy now but not really… Those were just words of self confidence of being alone… Man cannot live by french bread alone (gave a little flavor to the bread cuz it’s getting old), ha! what a cliche… a cliche that it is somehow, really speaks the truth….
The problem is… when two human beings are together, at the earliest of their stage they seem to like, adore, love(eww) each other more…We tend to see more at the early stage of relationships.. But when you guys get old… and more years you accumulate, more experiences come, more situations passing your way….. heck… your at war… a never ending war… because more means more, more problems…. I’m not saying I’m an expert of what it is about relationships… I’m just trying to dig in more of my past and keep on learning of the experiences I had…
People who love each other have an uncanny knack of making each other miserable… Yup,.. like the statement say… People who are in a relationship make each other miserable… The man learns more about the Woman and vice versa…hence, they both know were the vulnerable parts are of each other… They can ruin each other… with just a few words… Am I right? well if not then ask your partner he/she definitely knows what I’m talkin’ about…if I’m wrong then you shouldn’t worry a bit… well anyway… The men knows how to please the women, women in return knows how the men… and so if you put it in the negative side…men, knows how to hurt women, and so women does to… the question is… why?…
Why would men and women want to hurt each other?… Is it a way of saying I don’t like you anymore or love you anymore?… well, no one can tell until one of you really confesses, so in a relationship… the best thing you can do is…………………………….I haven’t really found or knew the next word to that… cuz I’m still in the process of learning.. but I can say a few things though.. Being honest is one, having trust is one, being faithful is another one, and not being selfish… when you get around all these… you might just have a shot of a long term moderately peaceful relationship..well it is still up to you how you heal each other…
I suggest you lick each other like dogs.. ( hahaha! hey! it’s just a suggestion but it might work) and say what you mean…or mean what you say…
December 3, 2009 at 6:05 am
well, sometimes i just don’t know how to understand him..all i can do is..yeah, just trying to trust him, be faithful..i’m still selfish, and sometime can’t tell him the truth..but sooner or later, i’ll know how to say what i mean and mean what i say..
December 4, 2009 at 6:42 am
hmm.. well all of us has a bit of selfishness inside.. we sometimes don’t even know it is selfishness… we just have to cope to each other and keep on going…. I’m sure it will be all worth it…